Have you ever met someone who says something nice to you and when you are not around, she started telling EVERYBODY the opposite about you? What would you do if you encounter one? Well, it is really annoying that such person exist in your group right? I heard everyone say that she is a back slapper and I bet she is; which I tried to twist my mind that she is not. If the situation is not healthy and you have a clear concept that it will not do you any good for your betterment as a person, STAY AWAY right? What if, she still think that you don't know and treat you the same way as nothing happens? What would you do? Pretend is the answer. What if she still wanted to fit in? My answer is------> QUIT! They are not worth to be associated with you. I guess, I will consider all of these, don't you think?
Note: I am using "SLAPPER" and not the traditional word "STABBER" because, this person I am referring to, didn't do harm on me.
well in my own personal opinion maybe quitting being friends with that person is not a good option but perhaps if you at least tried to change her and tell her everything that you know about her, maybe or maybe not she will change for the better, it is always nice to be an instrument of change of someone's lives.isn't it? we are all just but human maybe she does that because she hated to be associated with the person and maybe the person she associated with is also a back slapper as you call it, who knows if you tried she will change and, and seeing her to be like that isn't healthy at all. talk to her heart to heart but of course with all sincerity in your heart tell her the root of the problem she may either realized it or not at all, then after doing so and still she does the same? that's the time to QUIT and simply keep away from that person. However if you could do something to change her then do so if she is an open minded enough she will definitely listen and perhaps on psychological points of view she needed help. what you think?
ReplyDeletei can't stay friends with people like that either. for me, that's already a betrayal of trust.
ReplyDeletethanks for remembering me amy! i was also out of the blogging scene for a while, hibernate lang, malamig na eh! but i sure missed you! take care always!
kaisog bah.. hehehhe.. kinsa imo ka-away??
ReplyDeleteGing, ayaw na'g tumpang.. Keebz sila.. Bahala gamay ra imong frenz basta kay true sila.. Lisod kaau ning sila pero only a few could be trusted... Kana pong uban nga matuo dayo'g chismis, waz kaau oi... U just can't believe everything somebody says.. There's always two sides of the story... Maong dapat they should have talked to you about sa issue..
ReplyDeletePero ayaw na, you fly above your haters... They're below you... Don't step down to their level...
Unsa man tagay ta? hehehhehe